Although a lot of wedding magazines and planning books will
tell you that the bride needs to relax a lot on the wedding day,
letís not forget about the groom either.
Ways to relax when you donít think that you can
unfortunate part of getting married is that you will be pulled
in many different directions on and leading up to the day. Not
only will the planning seem to take up your free time, but
family member may feel that they need to put in their two cents
The combination can be torture.
youíve gotten to the actual wedding day without major damage,
why not have a little fun? For the women, have a little
champagne at the salon when you get your hair done. Joke with
your friends and laugh. This is supposed to be a joyous time.
And really, anything that you would need to do at this point
will be taken care of by someone else.
You just need to
get dressed and to the church.
And for the men, why not
spend the morning at the golf course with some of your
groomsmen? This is the perfect time for you to kick back before
you have to get ready. Since getting ready wonít be nearly as
complicated as your soon-to-bride, why not sleep in too?
Other ideas to relax on your wedding day include joking (at
non-serious times) a lot and smiling as much as you can. Funny
enough, just the act of smiling triggers a reaction in your
brain to relax. Seriously.
Passing the buck
of letting you relax on your wedding day does come down to good
planning. If youíve delegated and thought of everything, thereís
no need to worry and you can enjoy the moments as they come.
If something should go wrong (and honestly, something will),
donít worry too much about it. Your wedding party and family
will want to make sure everything goes smoothly, so if something
should happen, enlist one of them to take care of the problem.
This is your wedding day and you want to look happy in your
pictures, rather than relieved. Take some time for yourself on
the actual day. You can either step out of the room for a
moment, or just sit down with a book for a few minutes. Find
just five minutes of quiet, and youíre sure to have a relaxing
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