What is it that makes you attracted to someone? The look? The
character? The way he or she makes you laugh? Well, that is a
few possibilities. Now let me ask you another question. What is
it that you feel that makes a couple go on a date together,
dates after dates? Think about it. Remember they have a choice
of saying no to a date. Very simple, there is something of
similar liking between the both of them, something which both
enjoy doing together, over and over again.
Ask yourself
this question, would you go on a date with someone whom doesn’t
enjoy dining, watching movies, coffee at café etc. Not a thing
at all of what you enjoy doing? For a couples to remain
together, there has got to be something similar between both.
Similar liking, interest, characteristic etc. The more the
similarities there is between the both of you, the better the
chances of a development of a further relationship there will
be.
What are the similarities between both that you can
work on? First of all, the physical appearance of course. Your
physical appearance is the very first thing that catches a
person’s eyes, the eyes of that special someone. Take note of
the type of dressing style he or she likes? How is he or she
normally dressed? A trendy and hip? Casual and sporty? Smart
casual? Try to dress so, dress in the style he or she would
like. Think about it, if you were someone who is very concern
with the neatness and cleanliness of your physical appearance,
would you like someone who is always so shabbily dressed?
Naturally, a person would tend to enjoy the company of another
who generally dresses similar to that of him or herself. Don’t
you find it so within your usual group of click?
Next
would be the hobbies and interest. What sports does he or she
like? Does she play the piano? What type of movies does he or
she enjoy watching? Does she love animals, dogs? Does he love
fishing? What flowers does she like? Hmm… knowing his or her
habits will be good too. Where does he or she normally hang out?
Does she hate crowded places? How many cubes of sugar she like
for her coffee? Does he hate shopping? Well in simple, find out
anything possible under the sun about him or her. Not a clue
where to start? Friends would be a good source to start with.
Ok guys, now that you know what she likes, it is time to plan
for a little nice and enjoyable date with her. It is afterall
still a guy’s job to ask the girl out, right? Notice I used the
word “enjoyable” instead of a nice and “romantic” date? Well, a
date involves two persons. To allow the chance for a further
development of a relationship, the chance for a next date, you
have got to make her enjoy the date, enjoy the time spent with
you.
Take her to places that she likes, serve her food
that she enjoys eating. “Oh medium cooked for the lady please”
Present her with flowers that she likes. She will be so
surprised and impressed by you. “Oh Rick, how do you know that I
love Pink Tulips? It’s so sweet of you” Plan activities that she
has always enjoyed. Watching a movie that she likes at her
favorite cinema? Bringing her to her favorite musical, “Phantom
of The Opera”? Ha as usual, me and my ideas again. Well, I know
you can definitely plan for yourself a more perfect enjoyable
date. In simple, create a familiar environment for her, a date
that she will feel comfortable. Naturally, she will enjoy
herself, enjoy going out with you, having your company,
developing a further liking for you.
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About the Author:
Rick Valens Staff Writer for
http://www.loveletterbox.com, Love Relationship Discussion
Forum Currently also freelance writer for
http://www.ecemetery.org, Monument of Eternal Memory