1) Don’t look at other women
While dating, focus your
attention on your date and make her feel as if she matters the
most to you compared to other women. Let’s face it, women loved
to be showered with attention and pampered by her man. If not
for you, who else other than her immediate family members.
2) Make her feel like a queen
On the first date, buy her
dinner to show you value her company. This will also reduce any
tension between two people meeting for the first time. Make her
feel special. Women find this absolutely irresistible. Build a
bond of fun and excitement between you and be romantic.
Subsequently you can buy her gifts when the relationship
progresses but never ask or even hint sexual favors in return.
Women get appalled and turned off by any suggestion of sex
initially.
3) Be yourself
Don’t exaggerate or
boast your credentials, successes, etc. Make the other party
feel at home so that she does not feel pressured to impress or
lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Nobody feels more
comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere.
4) Don’t ever talk about your past relationships
Don't
keep harping on them. This is a no-no and a sure turn-off. You
will only project the impression that you are unable to let go
and continue to give a present date a chance to get to know you
better in a positive manner.
5) Treat your first date
as if going for an “interview”
You want to impress and
let the other person know your qualities and characteristics for
a life partner. If you are not ready to be in a commitment, let
her know straight away so that you do not mislead her into false
hopes. But be cautious not to boast or exaggerate stuffs that
are beyond you. Your deepest communication to women is carried
out by your personal style and your level of confidence. Nobody
feels more at ease than being with a confident man.
6) Don’t keep splurging and live like a millionaire unless you
are one yourself
During the dating process, be careful
how you handle money and spend within your own capacity. You
don’t want a bank account of only 1 figure left after several
dates. If you cannot afford it, go for somewhere cheaper or try
less expensive alternatives. It is most undesirable if after
several dates, you find that both of you are almost broke or
worse, had to borrow to continue your lavish lifestyle. If your
partner is in a habit of borrowing money from you, drop her or
him immediately.
7) Be observant
While dating
for a while, you can conclude if this person is suitable for you
for life or not. During dating, keep both eyes wide open and
look for tell tale signs like a persistent borrower, in debt,
etc but after marriage, keep a close eye and forgive.
The
best time to date is during high school or undergraduate years
as you are young with no "life baggage" but you can also date if
you are single again. Marriage is meant to last for better or
for worse till death do us part. But enjoy dating while you can
and live life to the fullest.
About the Author:
Bonnie Lee holds a successful home based business besides being
in a satisfying relationship. While not working, she enjoys
precious quality time with her spouse. She is the author is this
article and ebook "41 Mistakes Men Make in Bed". For motivation,
read relationship success at her website
http://www.tsldesigns.com/ebooks/41m
