Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals sites.
Being a man and also being the owner of a dating site myself I
have to tell all my fellow men that you are chasing all the
women away. Most of you anyway. Women are keen on how we behave
because most of us all behave the same way on dating sites. Here
is a list of DO's and DON'TS to help keep the women at these
sites and to help you get some responses.
1) DON'T copy
and paste 25 exactly same emails and send them off. Women see
right through this and it get's you no-where. Ever wonder why
you don't get responses? That's the first reason. DO send
individual emails and put some thought into contacting women on
these dating sites. REMEMBER: women get 100 emails a day from
all sorts of guys. If your email has no heart then you just go
over-looked.
2) DO spell check your email, women are so
turned off by a guy that cannot spell it shows you are either
stupid or just lazy. The same thing goes for grammar. Take some
time to get it right guys and you will get a response.
3)
DON'T choose a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (unless you
are on an adult dating site). Remember, women usually like men
with some class and Roger_69sU shows that you just want a one
night stand. Try something more clever.
4) DON'T contact
single women if you are married. It is a waste of their time and
is an insult. DO read their profile and see if they are
interested in married men.
5) DON'T lie. DON'T lie. DON'T
lie. Enough said.
6) DO not send women pictures of your
"privates". They will ask if they want to see that. DO send them
a nice picture that shows your sense of humor or style.
7) DON'T just send an email after you see their picture. DO read
their profile first.
8) DON'T harass women that are not
interested. This ruins the site for everyone and could very well
get you banned from the dating site forever. Many sites now have
reporting features for this very reason. DO treat all others on
the site as though you were talking in person to them. You would
harass them to their face would you?
This is just a small
list of some of the incredibly stupid things guys are doing on
Internet dating and singles sites. Now of course there are some
great guys out there that are honestly looking for a nice date
or relationship so any women reading this, just bear with us, we
men are slowing catching up and figuring it out.
Hope
this article helps.
About the Author:
Leif Croonquist is 34 years old and lives in Portland, Oregon.
He is the owner and creator of
http://www.cupidsblackbook.com. He invites you to join if
you behave ;)