Have you ever thought of meeting people online? If so,
meeting people online can be great fun. Online dating has given
us the opportunity from our comforts of our own home to search
for that someone. Let your common sense prevail when searching
online and do not let your instincts lessen when making your
decision. Please see the dating tips below which will make your
search safe, a lot of fun and most importantly successful.
* Dating Tip #1
Most common form of introduction would be
to say" Please Allow me to introduce myself" I use this one
myself, it helps to break the ice and it is polite yet confident.
Have you ever tried to introduce yourself in a night club or a
bar? I am sure you have. Do you say "Hi my name is"... my
telephone number and my address is such and such... No I thought
not. When you introduce yourself on http://Iwantudating.com,
please use common sense and do not reveal any personal details
about yourself. This is one great thing about online dating. Take
as much time as you need in getting to know someone before being
comfortable enough in revealing all there is to know about you.
So make sure you are not pressured.
* Dating Tip #2
Do not lie about yourself on your profile. People will
eventually find out you are having them on.
* Dating Tip
Do take the time to complete the entire profile on the
registration form - Any unanswered questions say you could not
be bothered or are hiding something. Try and complete the form
as much as possible to let any potential contact know the real
* Dating Tip #4
Have you ever heard of the
phrase "Honesty is the best policy" I am sure you have. Honesty
is admired yet dishonesty is being disrespectful. Tell the people
you are emailing your true intentions and it should be the
correct path to successful dating. Always remember, that you
must use your common sense and judgement. I know it is not easy
to judge who you are contacting on the other side so please
assess who you are being honest with.
* Dating Tip #5
Now here is good dating advice. Add a nice photo. A photo of you.
A smiling photo. A smiling photo up close. A recent smiling
photo up close! Make sure your photos are recent preferably less
than 6 months old) and that you are happy. Members with photos
are likely to get up to 9 times more replies than members
without any photo image attached to their profile.
Dating Tip #6
Do not talk or brag about your ex. There is
nothing more of a turn off for people to hear about your
previous relationships. Instead focus on what you already
have. The past is often best forgotten.
* Dating Tip #7
Always try and reply to people's messages and reply in a
reasonable amount of time, not weeks later. If you are serious
about dating, you are serious about replying. They have taken
the time to talk or write to you and they may be really nice.
* Dating Tip #8
Has it ever happened to you where you are
talking to a stranger and you are wondering what they look like?
Our brains tend to create an image in our mind of what someone
might look like. It is only our natural instinct to do so. If you
ever meet or met the person they did not look anything like you
had in your mind? Am I right? Of Course. Unfortunately none of
us are psychic so I suggest you you ask for a picture and you
can feel more comfortable with whom you are emailing.
Dating Tip #9
Always and I mean always meet your date in
a mutual place during the day which both of you are comfortable
with. Always advise a friend or a relative of where you are going
and leave a contact number. Do not leave any Drinks
unattended. Unfortunately and it must be said that we live in
cruel and sick world. Please if you have an alcoholic drink then
please drink moderately.
* Dating Tip #10
Realistic. Most fairytale stories do not have a happy ending. If
they sound perfect fit , it does not necessarily mean send the
wedding Invitations out yet. If this date does not work out do
not worry it will not be your last first date. If it does not
lead to a next date then pack your bags and move on to the next
potential candidate on your list. Do not be put off.
Remember there are plenty of fish in the Sea. So make sure you
About the Author:
Norbert is the owner and the author of Dating Variety Newsletter